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Housing Choices

Our mortgage is the single biggest monthly expense we have at about $2700/mth (P&I and escrow). Dad and I were discussing some of our options for lowering our housing costs on the drive home from Grammy’s this weekend.

We both think our house is a bit big for us, but we almost love it, so we’re in no hurry to make changes. Our biggest complaint is that we would like a larger kitchen, but smaller “rest of the house”. We bought the house planning on having two kids, but that’s not going to happen, so we have 2 virtually unused rooms in the house: the guest room and the basement. The layout is nice, but when we were looking, we hadn’t been successful in finding a smaller house with all of the key features we wanted: single-family, 2-car garage, largish kitchen, and more than spitting distance to our neighbors.

The two options that really came to mind were buying land and custom building and buying a smaller house that needs some remodeling to meet our needs. We discussed a few others, but none we thought would be feasible given the location we want to remain in (for now) and what we really want out of a house. They’re not completely off the table, but not something we’re going to spend much time on investigating.

We’ve looked at buying land in our area, and it’s pretty pricy unless we move a bit further out. I need to do some more research on the costs of building our own house to see if that’s possible. We’d have to work with a custom builder, which may increase the price significantly. We do *not* want to end up in a “planned” community, which around here means high HOA fees and extremely restrictive rules. Most of the local land and homebuilders fall into this category. I’ve looked at a few of the house plans offered nearby, and none of them would fit our needs either – we’d truly need a custom house. Most of them are bigger than our current house and we’d just be moving further out and not getting what we really want. Kitchens don’t seem to be that popular around here… We also want to make sure that the house doesn’t “feel” small, which requires a slightly different architecture than is common around here.

We also considered buying an older house (maybe a foreclosure) in an established neighborhood, and remodeling it. For example, adding space for a larger kitchen to a much smaller home. Or adding a garage. We’d be able to buy a much smaller house and use the savings to remodel to what we actually want. We’d have to be diligent in looking for homes that *could* be remodeled – as in getting permits and dealing with any HOA approvals. I know people who have done it locally, so I can pick their brains on what we need to be asking and looking for.

We’re looking for something that could save us ~$1000/mth on our mortgage payments. Anything less isn’t worth the mental and physical hassle for us really. I ran some numbers, and based on a 4.5% interest rate for 30 years, we could borrow close to $300k. We have $150k equity in our current house, giving us a little more than $400k to play with after sales costs. We could do a significant amount of remodeling on a $250-300k house with that.

As I said before, we almost love our house, and we *really* like it’s location (which in real estate is almost everything). While we’d love a smaller house with a bigger kitchen, we’re willing to sit tight until we find the “perfect” opportunity. Until then, we’ll work on purging our stuff and cleaning up the house so we’d be able to put it on the market quickly when the time comes.

Adjusting Insurance Premiums

March is when we owe USAA our auto insurance premium.  This year, it was topping $500/6mths for our two cars (after all the discounts!), and I don’t think it should be.  We have never had an at fault accident, and Dad has only had one moving violation in the last 3 years (it was adjusted from “speeding” to “failure to obey posted sign” – no points).  Dad’s car still has collision on it, because it’s a difference of $1/mth, so we might as well.  Mine has collision as it’s financed still.  I removed the rental car option – we *can* survive on 1 car, and hopefully, it’s the “other guy” who’s paying for the rental car anyway.  I also raised our deductibles to $1000 per vehicle.  We have that money in our emergency fund, and it saves us about $50/6mths.  It’s also the highest deductible allowed, so I can’t reduce it any further.

I also looked at our homeowner’s policy.  It had us replacing the inside contents of our stuff at a 75% of home value rate – over $355k of “stuff”.  I can’t imagine how we would spend that much on the interior items in our house, it’s *maybe* $100k-$150k.  I was able to lower that coverage to 50% of home value or about $250k.  It lowered our premium by about $50/year.

I *almost* changed our deductibles as well.  We have a $2,000 deductible for both options (“wind & hail” and “other”), and I considered raising them to $4,500 – tied to home value, it will always be 1% of the home rebuild value.  It would have saved us another $500/year.  The only reason I didn’t do it was that our emergency fund would not be able to take two car deductibles *and* the homeowner’s deductible at the same time.  We’d need another $1500 in our emergency fund to do so.  By the end of this year, I hope to have a lot more than that in our emergency fund, so I will likely raise those deductibles then.  We could raise them as high as $10,000, which may be a consideration as we have more and more savings to self-insure.

How often do you look at your insurance premiums and coverage to make sure you’ve got the appropriate amount of insurance for you?

10 Minutes to save $15 per month

I just spent 10 minutes on the phone with Verizon’s “Elite team” and lowered our Internet bill *and* increased the speed (not that we need more speed).

We have FIOS Internet, and have since we moved into our house.  In fact, one of the “requirements” for our house when we were looking was that FIOS was already in the neighborhood, or being put in (not just in the planned stages).  We started at a small 5/1 speed for $59.99 – you couldn’t do any better without bundling, and we didn’t need TV or phone, so that’s what we got.  Over the years, We made it up to $64.99 for 15M/5M – I honestly haven’t noticed the difference in speed – at most, we’re streaming *one* show/movie/music at one time, so 5 really was just fine for us (I’m also reminded of when DSL speeds were 384k/56k and we liked it – get off my lawn!)

I got the notification of my new Verizon bill, and I was being charged $72.99 – whoa! With no notice, my rate goes up, so I checked online to see what the new prices/rates/bundles were.  I could get a 3/1 for $69.99, but for $3/mth, we were going to just stay with the 15/5.  Nothing much available for us through their web page.  So, I looked over at Cox – our local cable company: they had 25/5 for 48.99/mth for 3 months, then 59.99/mth after that.  I don’t really like the cable company, but we use them for our office, and it’s been stable and we haven’t had to deal with their customer service, but hmmm..

I called Verizon and got transferred to their “Elite team”, and spoke with a nice gentleman who asked me how I’m liking the FIOS and what I’m using it for.  He did try to up sell me to a TV package, but I told him we just don’t watch TV (and anyway, our house isn’t wired for TV – I’d have to run the wiring myself – yech!).  I told him what Cox was offering, and he said “let me see what I can do for you”.  He looked through his computer and was able to offer me 20/5 for $57.99/mth for at least one year, but after that, it’d go up to whatever the current rate was at the time.  I accepted and set a reminder in my calendar to call again next January!

The whole call took me about 10 minutes, and some of that was BSing with the guy who lives in Pittsburgh about Pittsburgh (I gave him my Pittsburgh area code cell phone for a callback number).

Twice this year, I’ve been able to save money by talking to a human on the phone for about 10-15 minutes.  Have you called the services you use to ask for a better rate?

Fixing a Leaky Dishwasher

Our dishwasher has been leaking a little bit from the corner for a few weeks now – it’s made a mess of the wood floor underneath, and I’m going to have to clean all that up, but it’s barely leaking now (and after tonight, will probably not be leaking any more).  For $54 with shipping, I bought a new door gasket to replace the old one, which was rotting (ew!)  It took me about 10 minutes to figure out how to get the old one out and put the new one in – along with some youtube videos.  I’m not sure I have the new gasket lined up quite right – it’s longer on one end than the other, and while both are completely in the gasket slot, it’s still leaking a bit from the side that’s longer than the other, so tonight, I plan on taking it out and putting it back in – shifting it just a little bit to make it even on both sides.

I was a little miffed that the part was over $50, since the dishwasher was only about $400 to start with (and I installed it myself!).  I was expecting the gasket to be a cheaper part – it’s just a strip of rubber – but I guess not.

How I’m Going to Meet my Household/Parenting Goals

Goals

  • Get rid of diapers!
  • Get rid of another 365 things in 365 days
  • Finish the tile in our basement project

Getting Rid of Diapers

Daughter Person has been potty trained for #1 for the last 6 months, and has gone over a month with no accidents outside of sleeping (nap/bedtime).  She’s even doing pretty good with the naps as long as we can get to her when she’s just waking up and convince her to use the potty.  We tried a few nights to let her sleep without a diaper, but she soaks herself and doesn’t wake up, so I don’t think we’re there yet.  We’ll let her decide when she wants to sleep without a diaper.

#2 is going to be our nemesis.  She used to try #2 in the potty – about 25% of the time, now she’s just refusing to use it and uses her undies instead.  At this point, we’ve tried bribing, cajoling, shaming, and begging.  We’ve moved on to the “have it your way kid, we’ll just let you walk around in it for a few minutes” phase.  She *loves* Pixar’s “Cars”, and I spent way more than I probably should have to create a “goodie bag” of Cars things she can pick from if she does #2 on the potty.  She gets shown this bag at least daily, and it still hasn’t helped – she hasn’t been able to pick one single thing from it in almost a month.

Night time is the only time we’re using diapers, and I’m getting a few of the older ones ready to re-sell to a friend who’s due in April (she asked if she could buy them from us, so I’m giving her a reduced price).  Pretty soon, we’ll have 5 diapers (out of the approximately 32 we started with).  Hopefully, by the time she’s 4, she’ll be able to stay dry at night too!

365 Less Things

I’m continuing this year with trying to rid our house of another 365 things.  I’ve already made a bit of a start.  But I’m going through the storage closets in the basement and in our crawl space.  Dad might let me into his office to see about getting rid of more things.  Our TV room has a lot of furniture in it that we want to get rid of and replace with one entertainment center, so there is a lot of opportunity there.   My goal is to pick one room a month to purge – clothes, toys, knick knacks, etc.  Daughter Person’s room is this month.  The donation box is overflowing with old books and toys.  I’m finally getting rid of the 24 month clothes she still has floating around, and some diapering things that we don’t need any more.  Much of it is going into a box to offer to my expecting friend – she gets first rights of refusal, but she’s having a boy, so not many of the clothes are suitable.

Finish the Basement Project

I have promised Dad that the basement will be finished this year (I would like to have it done before summer, but that might be pushing it)!  I’ve already scraped out the carpet glue inside the closets that have already been cleared of carpet, so we can store things in them until it comes time to do the tile.  I’ve gotten rid of several things that were taking up space via freecycle.  I have to move a few things around so Dad can remove the rest of the carpet, and I can get started on getting up more carpet glue.

I plan to work in the basement at least 2-3 hours per week, depending on how tired I am.  It’s not exactly a safe place for Daughter Person, so we can’t really let her play down there while we work 🙁

Cleaning up for 2014 has started

Total items out of the house: 5/365

Dad and I rearranged Daughter Person’s room this weekend.  Her room has a set of built-in bookshelves which until now, she hasn’t been able to reach, so we were keeping adult reading materials up there, as well as other things we didn’t really want her to have ready access to (like the playdough).  She’s able to reach them now, but her crib was in front of them, so we moved it, removed the glider chair we had in there (and moved it to my office – it may become a reading chair for me), and started putting toys in bins on the shelves (thanks to Erica for the idea!)

Daughter Person's Room

Daughter Person’s Room

While I was cleaning up the shelves, we found several things that went straight into the trash, and a few more that will find their way to freecycle and craigslist in the next few days.  We also bought two new pieces of furniture to corral toys and books.  She has more books than maybe even I had before donating them!  The books have taken over the coffee table, and we’re hoping that the kid sized bookshelf we got will hold them all.  We also bought a toy bin shelf to provide more space than the small toy box we currently have in her room – which will be sold/donated as soon as the new one arrives and is assembled!

I freecycled an old 3′ plastic pool and an old cat house/bed that were in the basement, and two play yards are getting listed on craigslist tonight.

2014 is off to a good start in the 365 less things department

Looking Forward to 2014

With 2014 here, I wanted to evaluate my goals for the upcoming year.  And actually write them down this year.  I’ve split my goals into three categories, and three goals in each category.

Health Goals

I’m overweight – borderline obese (although you wouldn’t know it by looking at me, I’m one of the people BMI just does NOT work for), and I’d like to get close to a “normal” weight, which for me is between 115 (hah!) and 154 lbs.  I’ve never been 115 in my adult life, and even 150 is hard for me to maintain for longer than about a month.  I also look like I’m terminally ill below about 145. 15lbs isn’t going to get me to “healthy”, but it’s a start.  I’m more focused on my body fat percentage and jeans size than actual weight.

  • Lose 15 lbs, with a stretch goal of 20 lbs
  • Exercise at least 3 times per week for at least 20 minutes each time
  • Eat at least 3 servings of fruits or vegetables per day – potato based foods do not count as a veggie

Financial Goals

I know I mentioned wanting to pay off all non-mortgage debt this year, and we could likely do it, but with our car payment at 0%, we’re going to pay the student loans down, then increase our retirement contributions to the maximum allowed (and maybe qualify for a Roth?).  It will slow down our car repayment, but since it’s not “costing” us anything, I’d rather put the money to work for us.

  • Pay off all non-mortgage debt that carries interest
  • Get to 650k in Net Worth, with a stretch goal of 700k
  • Increase our assets to 1.2 million (conservative to account for market fluctuations)

Household/Parenting Goals

These are random goals around the house that I want to complete this year.  These are the big ones, although I have smaller ones in mind already.

  • Get rid of diapers!
  • Get rid of another 365 things in 365 days
  • Finish the tile in our basement project

Last donation of the year was picked up today

Total Items out of the house: 401/365

365 less things was a success this year.  I’m hoping I can continue the progress next year, although I’m more likely to have half that amount since I’m having to ask permission to get rid of most things now-a-days.

The local charity that picks up items came by and removed 117 items this morning.  Four very large boxes.  In those boxes was a mix of glassware (I used to collect shot glasses – yet not really use them), clothes from everyone in the family (especially Daughter Person), and a box and a half of Daughter Person’s old toys.  Daughter Person made out like a bandit for Christmas, and we decided that it was time to purge her old toys and give them away. So, we spent last night going through her toys, collecting all the little pieces and putting them together, and putting them in a box.  She was engrossed in Cars on the iPad, so she didn’t even realize what we were doing.  There are a few toys that we’ve seen her play with recently, but Dad and I hate for one reason or another, so they went out, and we’re hoping she doesn’t know they’re missing…

How has your decluttering goal gone this year?

Freezing Cold Weather and No Power

We’ve been without power the last few days.  It went out Monday morning about 4am, and came back on this morning (Wednesday) at 5am.  Luckily, it was cold enough outside, that we just put the contents of the fridge in a big storage tub out in the snow on the deck.  The freezers were completely stuffed, so we just left them alone.  Things were still pretty frozen when we opened them this morning to check on them, so we’re planning on keeping all the food that was in there.

Our main problem was that we have an electric heat pump (and electric everything else), so we had no heat for 49 hours when the outside temperatures were as low as 19F and as high as 38F.  And since the power went out at night, the temperature in the house was about 65F – our normal sleeping temperature.  The thermostat read 44 as the power came back on, so we were definitely cold in the house.

The main living room of our house has a 75,000 BTU wood-burning insert though.  We were able to keep the temperature in that set of rooms (kitchen, living room, and loft upstairs) about 54F by burning wood.  We have an insert though – not a true wood burning stove – it’s nestled inside the previous fireplace and so radiated heat mostly goes into the bricks of the fireplace.  The insert requires a little bit of electricity to bring the hot air from inside the fireplace to the room.  And that air movement is also needed to help keep the insert from getting too hot (imagine glowing hot iron – we’ve done it before on accident..).  We were able to light small fires, but nothing that would really heat up that room significantly without chancing overheating the stove.  We also have a high ceiling and loft above that room, so a lot of the heat travels up to the loft.  Normally, we have a ceiling fan to push the air back down, but not without electricity.  I’m amazed we could keep that room as warm as we did.

We had previously bought a generator (before Sandy), but had never run it – we go to start it up, and it won’t start 🙁  It’s a propane generator, because of our expectation of limited use (normally, our power is rock solid), and we think it may have been too cold for the oil or propane.  We’re going to be playing with it over the next week to see if we can start it.  Then once we figure out how to get it started, we’ll have to drain the oil to put it in storage.

We also have several oil lamps that are generally used for ambiance, but they were used for actual light the last few days.  It was almost romantic writing Christmas cards out by lamp light.

52F was *way* too cold for my comfort when we went to bed last night, but we might consider taking our night-time thermostat setting down to 60 instead of 65.

Have you been without power for an extended period of time?  What do you keep your thermostat set to at night in cold weather?

One very large item out of the house

I sold my computer desk on craigslist this week.  It had served me well for almost 8 years, but it was very large, and it had basically become a dumping ground for papers and whatnot, so I decided to sell it and get a smaller one.  The old desk is 71″ square on the two sides, and the monitor in the picture is a 24″ monitor to give you an idea of its size.  It was replaced by a smaller IKEA desk, and the sale price of the old desk almost covered the price of the new desk.

I also have a rather large box of stuff to take to the thrift store, but it’s not out of the house yet.  I’m also going to be going through our Christmas stuff as soon as Thanksgiving is over to get rid of anything we don’t use any more.

The pictures are from two different angles, but the room clearly looks bigger with the smaller desk.  It’s a small loft room anyway.  And, I no longer have a surface to just dump things onto; I have to put everything away.

Old Desk

Old Desk

New Desk

New Desk